Imagine just for a minute. You are watching a really great movie for the first time. You are really having fun. There are a lot of adventures, excitement, and romance in the movie, even there's a little touch of danger and mystery mixed in it. You have no idea what will happen next! Your emotions are stirring, your heart pounding and then ... the unpredictable ending of grand finale!
You released completely with a deep sigh and totally satisfied and may be a little tired and you could not wipe off that silly smile from your face. After all, that was one huge heck extraordinary experience!
Now...image watching the same movies day after day for the next 5 months. Will the movie be still fun? No. It won't be adventurous. There's no more excitement any more. It's so predictable and stale. You memorized every scene by now without even trying. You sick of it.
So what the movie has to do with your sex life? It's only an anecdote to describe the sex boredom attack and I have 3 facts and tips to counter attack it as below:
Fact 1 - change kills boredom.
Base on the fact that change kills boredom, you may need to make few changes before having sex. Make this your first rule: change location, location and location.
You are to have sex anywhere but BEDROOM. It's up to you to create alternatives places: couch, coffee table, bath tub, shower, kitchen, kitchen table, rocking chair, exercise equipment, hanging on the wall ( if you have sticky palms like Spiderman ) in the freezer ( if it's large enough for both of you ), in the car, the hood of the car, out in the woods during camping or hiking.
Public places could add more spice things up for that matter. Having sex in places where there's a possibility of being caught sparks more excitement to your sex. Try doing it in the roof, garden, swimming pool, a stairway, your office warehouse, airplane restroom, or bus stop gents.
But I have one word: do it at your own risk. If you get caught-don't blame me. If you have to explain it to authority - don't say I advise you.
You could do anything that change scenery will break the monotony and kill your sex boredom. All you need to do is spend a little time, a little effort and a little imaginary into new things and places to start up and your imaginary will do the rest.
Fact2 - You still could teach an old dog a few new tricks,
Based on the fact we must be flexible enough to learn and adapt new moves you already know to make different situation, moods and moments.
The basic idea, again, is to kill the sex boredom. Stay away from your regular moves as you can. Remember the key is : VARIETY
Slow down a little bit. Tease your lover to drive him crazy. Don't hit straight home to his genital, touch his other areas such as inner thigh, belly button, buttocks, his under arms until he's absolutely can't stand it anymore. Who said foreplay is for women? Boys need it too.
Don't be predictable. How do you take to his erogenous zones? You start it with kissing his lips, move to the neck, breast, stomach and his lollypop? Hm...so typical.
He knows your moves. Yes...after the left breast, a little squeezy on the right, lick down to the belly button, ouch.... And then to the yawn...yawn....
This is the quickest way to sex boredom. Since erogenous zones are spread out all over our body, why don't you hit them all or alternate them. Use different stroke, rhythms, speeds, tools and make him wondering what is your next move. Instead of kissing it, why don't you bite it for instance?
Fact 3 - You could learn from watching each other
Just as you can satisfy each other by simply reversing the things you used to do each other, you can similarly learn more about how to satisfy each other in different ways. By sharing this type of interest, you could become a better lover for each other.
The tip here is to show each other what is your best idea of perfect kiss, for instance, and take turn kissing each other but he can't kiss back but to enjoy your kiss, Then switch! This role playing will show you exactly what his likes or dislikes to be kissed which then you can copy.
Masturbate in front each other will also help you and your lover to understand a whole lot about satisfying each other. This in turn will increase the enjoyment and pleasure during sex.
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